I know he looks at porn; he loves porn. I hate it and distroy every pornographic thing I find. He doesn’t care.I thought I could learn to live with it. Now this Adult Friend Finder thing… I’ve read and seen that porn is/can be a gateway for cheating.

What is adult friend finder, and what are some reasons my husband has an account w/them? It’s not a payed account (I would have noticed it on our bank statment) Is it porn as well?

I found out becasue he left his sbc account signed in and I didnt realize it was his mail and not mine. I’m respectfull of his emails, mostly becasue I don’t want to know what’s in there. When I went to check the email I saw the ads sent to his email w/his user name (one he uses frequently for many web sites) as well as mail from torrent porno websites.

Has he already made the leap to cheating? He never has time to go out alone, but I do go to bed before he does. He’s always there in the morning…

What do you all think?

He refuses to go to counciling, and says that I should just leave if I think it’s that bad, so this might be my last straw.

To make a long story short, Someone used my computer for about 3 months and I have found email addresses stored on my computer. Is there any FREE websites that I can go to and put in the email addresses and find out WHO these people are or at least see their profile. I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO SEE PROFILES ON YAHOO,SBC GLOBAL.NET, AOL, BELL SOUTH.NET, PRODIGY.NET.
**PLEASE HELP IT’S AN EMERGENCY**