We all just moved from one apartment to the other and my email was to a best friend in my home state, talking about what terrible packers and movers my roommates are. I refered to them as "lazy" and called them out for leaving mess (stuffed into trash bags the morning of the move) day after day and going out to get wasted, trash the house and start all over again.

Obviously, they are now mad. I apologized that they read that and it hurt their feelings, but I defend my right to use my personal email to vent my frustrations to a friend of 13 years who I talk about everything with. I absolutely would not believe for a moment that they haven’t been out with their respective friends, venting their own frustrations.

The finder of the email insists that it "popped up," but it’s an old facebook message which eventually turns into a conversation about how my ankles have been bothering me. He would have had to click "earlier messages" to get to the information that made him so mad.