Recently just after Christmas I was trying to get into my fiancees myspace to change his layout style, because he doesn’t have a clue how to work it so i’ve done it for him. I forgot the new password that he got because it was hacked, so i sent the password to his email knowing what the password to that was. When i got into his email i found many emails from a site called "Adultfriend Finder", which is a Sex and Swinger website. At first i thought it must be spam, until the first one said his profile has been accepted. That, more than anything, was a red light. So, knowing a thing or two about computers, i searched the email and it provided when the profile was submitted and with what IP address. Not only was it submitted on our day off (we work third shift) at 6:30 in the morning, when i was asleep, but from OUR computers IP address. To further it, in the email it gave this:

Location: Akron, Ohio, 44305
Intro: artist looking for canvass//

Which is where we live and he is both a tattoo artist and a musician. And those words also made me think, the way we met was he got a job where i worked, but he told me originally he was going to say to me "I’m an artist looking for a canvas, will you be it?"

Thirdly, I used the password provided in the email and checked out this profile. That was the biggest and hardest blow. The username was Tesai3, his email, and everything else has Tesai in it, and in the profile he said:

24 year old Man in Akron, Ohio
Looking For: Women for Discreet Relationship

Profile for Tesai3: Im a long time musician and a tattoo artist in search of a young beautiful white or oriental girl thats single loves all kinds of music and is VERY WELL KEPT. Such as cleanliness and not being a completely numb, psycologically and emotionaly wrecked nusance. And also must keep a distance from my work and play unless you are joining in to be played with or worked on.
(He never uses the ‘ between his I and Ms whenever i’ve seen him typing. He loves japan and especially oriental girls. He is a tattoo artist and a musician for the past 10 to 12 years, he is a clean freak and bossy about what is to be done and what isn’t.)
Not only that it went on to name his correct age, birthday, physical attributes, and other such things.
I confronted him, but he denies it, over and over, and even has tried to be extra nice. The problem is our entire relationship he always out and about because he does so much work with tattoos, construction, and music, i can’t pin him going to see other girls. What i can pin on him is that he made a profile trying to find a girl for a discreet relationship but he says he doesn’t know what it is, but won’t give me any other straight answers and has completely pretended it never happened. The problem is, he lies, a lot, to other people about much smaller much more trivial things. I’m not sure what to believe.

Help!?