my fiance and i have benn together for 4 years now.we have a little girl together he is a great father and is very caring. however today i was checking my email and i seen two website that offer people to hook up and have sex it like a adult finder website were you find people to have sex together.i was shocked what should i do or how should i come to him about what i seen?

my fiance and i have benn together for 4 years now.we have a little girl together he is a great father and is very caring. however today i was checking my email and i seen two website that offer people to hook up and have sex it like a adult finder website were you find people to have sex together.i was shocked what should i do or how should i come to him about what i seen?

I keep receiving explicit messages from Yahoo messenger to my phone from email datheat1@yahoo.com about my fiance and I from someone we believe to be her ex. I did an email reverse search through a paid service and received a name we’ve never heard of and two address’s, The name, which we believe is fake, is Javon Baker
and the two address’s are 2462 Curie Ct
Herndon, VA 20171 and 855 Knight Ct
Charlottesvle, VA 22901. The ip address I received through the paid service is 209.131.36.158. Is there anyway I can find out through this information who is sending me these messages to my phone?
Thanks for the help in advance.

My fiance & I met up with his best friend for dinner. At the end of the dinner I found out from his friend that he used to talk about me to him. Last year my fiance & I argued alot. I didn’t show any affection to him. I never kissed him or hold hands. Because of my culture & my religion. Then this spring I let him see me naked. I didn’t sleep with him but been fooling around alot. I wanted to wait for marriage but it happened. Now I am so much in love & he gave me a ring. He loves me alot too. Yesterday he said when we faught he told his co-worker, mom & uncle about me. I told my sis about him too but not anymore. This summer I found an email add in his room. It was visible. He didn’t realize it at first then he saw me seeing it & hid it. I went home & did a reverse email search.It belongs to a woman in england but he’s never been there.Yesterday I asked if he keeps in touch with other girls in the net. He said no. Should I believe him? Why did a girls name come up in my search?

Okay do any of you know that sight adult space? It’s just like myspace but you get to put up nude pics and stuff. Well i found out that my fiance had one about a month ago..i asked him and he denied it but i know it was him because his picture was up there and so wasn’t other pictures of something that i should only see..He still denies it. Now i got on his email to see if a order that we posted went through and now i saw a thing for adult finder.com of course i have the right to know so i checked it but nothing was on there i deleted that account. I also deleted that adult space account to. Is it wrong for doing this? Were expecting a baby in october and i don’t need someone that’s not going to be faithful to me..He has never cheated on me before but now im wondering if he has..Am i wrong?
How i found out about the adult space ting is because he left it up on my computer by mistake and he was trying to deny it..im not dumb but i do love him and try to talk to him but whenever i do he says ohh ur just trying to get exscuse to leave me…idk what to do

My fiance have been through it all. He has serious trust issues with me although I have NEVER crossed the line! Not even sligtly..even so, I have NO contact with males unless he ‘okays’ it. I’m perfectly FINE living this way because I can’t stand to argue about it. HERES THE CATCH: My fiance was allowed to be on the computer unsupervised from the time he was 11 to now. Thats 10 years..we all know how MEN are with the internet..I’ve caught him on sites like Adult Friend Finder and even Match.com. This has happened at least ten times. I always forgive, but the last time I banded him from the computer completely. I know he can sometimes sneak around and get on so I continue to check his email. Last night he got so upset over me checking his email, but I am just SICK of dealing with this internet addiction. It would be different if it was just porn but he’s actually talking to these women..Every relationship should be OPEN and HONEST..I feel like I have the right to check his email if I want to, especially with the history of his internet capades. Is this right or wrong?