I need help …i have been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, everything has been going great, until she lied again!

1st month, i saw an email from adult friend finder.com in her account, saying some thing about people are looking at you and think your hot! after being told that it was spam, i over looked it.

2nd months or so in, she gets a call from her "cousin", she says "ill call you later" and we get back to what we were doing. later on that night i find out she lied to me, that it was he ex boyfriend.

feeling uneasy as to why she would lie about her ex boyfriend calling, i found out that she used to be on a few dating websites, only being 19 years of age, i wondering what she was looking for. when looked more into it, i found out that she has a profile on adultfiendfinder.com, no pictures but had a XXX user info what blow me away!

when i confronted her on the matter, she could not stop lying, saying i was wrong, there was no way that was right, that the website must have changed it. she said that she thought it was a normal dating site like match.com, and she had a profile that just said she liked sports.

later on after admitting that she wrote that, she told me it was just so people to look at her page. it took me a while to cool down, but a week later things were back to the way they were before and promising never to lie again.

just the other day, as she was getting ready for her O.B.G.Y.N. appointment, she was filling out her sexual history on the form. thinking to myself, should i worry to much about getting tested for any STD’s, i asked how many sexual partners has she had(i have had 3, including her). even though she told me only three including me, i knew that was a lie because once before, when i first started talking to her, she told me 5.

After stating that the number was still only three, a few more times. she decided to tell the truth, and that the number including me was 7! i didn’t know what to do, not only was i mad because she lied, but i felt like 7 is a high number when she told me that during high school she had a boyfriend for 4 years (the one who called during month 2)

this meant that there was 5 guys from then end of her senior year in high school to the end of the 2nd semester in college freshman year.

i don’t know what to do, it has been about 4 days now, and i don’t even want to see her or talk to her, but i know i have to sooner or later. I am afraid that if something serious ever comes up again, that she will lie to me. as well as finding it hard to see her in the same way i did before, after finding out how many sexual partners she has had!

What should i do?

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I received an email on my space that was very awkward. It said to tell this certain person hi. (that person is my wife lets call her L) for our protection. He remembers her from the bar with her cousin which they got kicked out of. Well first of my wife drinks very little and the only night she ever went out was with my sister. At first he wanted to know if L was my sister and to tell her he wanted to go out with her. I dont even look at my space my wife does. She seen it and told me about it and wrote him back and told him that it was my wife and do not know who you are. About 2 weeks later I received an e-mail to my personel account which only family and friends have. It was very personal and this person knew that I had moved, my work schedule and even the names of my dogs. How can I find out who this is? I have the email address. I have tried all the free online reverse email searches that I could find. It tells me no such address. What do I do?
Tumbleweed
Thank u 4 ur concern I know my wife very well. As I said she is the one that originally told me about this. I have a suspition about 2 diff. people it may be. It might be either my ex or hers just playing a prank. But I am not certain of this. But I will find out one way or the other.
Humble,
Thank u I will try that
Humble
I tried the arinswhois and it told me the ip address came from CA. On his my space there is no pic. but it gives his age and says he lives in the same town as I do. Can he some how be routing it to look like that or what. I mean he knew my dogs names. My wife is pretty fritened right now we have 4 kids. I need to know were and who this guy is.

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I have been trying to find an email or current address and phone number information for relatives (my aunt and cousin on my father’s side, whom I’ve never met) who live in the Bronx or somewhere in New York-state for a family tree project.

I can not afford to pay for any information, especially that from many of the websites such as Intellus and NetDetective and am looking for FREE websites that have NO-COST and NO OBLIGATION that will produce informational leads.

Thank you in advance your your help.

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