I have spent the past year finding school friends on a onine friend finder. Though the experience has given me joy, and did not expect the pain that has followed due to the fact that I disappeared out of their lives because of tragic circumstances that befall my family. It felt like everyone forgot about me, especially my friends who didn’t know where I had disapeared too. I have finally decide to leave the past behind, and see who would follow me to the future so I left the friend finder and emailed everyone with my actual email and number for them to keep in touch if they want. One of the guys I used to go to school with who I didn’t remember particularly being friend of foe with was one of the few people who wants to keep in touch with me. This brings me to my question. He sent me a message saying here are my details but also added that he thought I had turned out to be a right looker, and now can find him ANY time I want to, then put this =;) at the end of that statement. What does this mean???I find myself drawn to him too, I mean he was always a nice guy, but its been about 20 years, and it is online!How do I respond to that?Is he pulling my leg?what do you think?
This is answer to marks question "is he near by" No he lives in another country, or I should say I live in another country. The thing that I don’t get really is that up until this message I had not really spoken to him. Its face book so its open to anyone who is your friend, which he was. And yes I totally fancy him!!! But Its confusing how he didn’t say anything till I was closing down my account. Though he did make it a private message. Also it turns out that when I left school he became best friends with the girl who used to be my best friend. So I don’t want to get it wrong. What I did was I sent him a message with a few other people who wanted to keep in touch, saying I was making sure it was the right email etc… and that was days go. He did say in that same email where complimented me that he is so crap at answering emails, so maybe he hasn’t checked it?.
I was to chicken to post this before but I am thinking of pursuing this so could do with peoples advise,do you still think he’s interested now reading the actual email? :
Hiya ******
How you doing? Do have to say, that you are quite the looker in some of your pics =;) And even though I know I’m not the best person in replying online, I do want you to have my email address -

*****@*******.com
********@*****.com

this way, you can alwaaaaaaays find me hehe.

but I do have to ask, why are you leaving ************? hope you’re alright and that life is treating you well =;)

Happy New Year********!!!
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This was my reply:

I am doing good! And thank you for the compliment! Life is very good, but I am starting again in a new town, and trying cut down on my addictions, alcohol, and being online. Like I am here on ******* instead of studying AAAH. You keep in touch too! xx

My fiance & I met up with his best friend for dinner. At the end of the dinner I found out from his friend that he used to talk about me to him. Last year my fiance & I argued alot. I didn’t show any affection to him. I never kissed him or hold hands. Because of my culture & my religion. Then this spring I let him see me naked. I didn’t sleep with him but been fooling around alot. I wanted to wait for marriage but it happened. Now I am so much in love & he gave me a ring. He loves me alot too. Yesterday he said when we faught he told his co-worker, mom & uncle about me. I told my sis about him too but not anymore. This summer I found an email add in his room. It was visible. He didn’t realize it at first then he saw me seeing it & hid it. I went home & did a reverse email search.It belongs to a woman in england but he’s never been there.Yesterday I asked if he keeps in touch with other girls in the net. He said no. Should I believe him? Why did a girls name come up in my search?

We all just moved from one apartment to the other and my email was to a best friend in my home state, talking about what terrible packers and movers my roommates are. I refered to them as "lazy" and called them out for leaving mess (stuffed into trash bags the morning of the move) day after day and going out to get wasted, trash the house and start all over again.

Obviously, they are now mad. I apologized that they read that and it hurt their feelings, but I defend my right to use my personal email to vent my frustrations to a friend of 13 years who I talk about everything with. I absolutely would not believe for a moment that they haven’t been out with their respective friends, venting their own frustrations.

The finder of the email insists that it "popped up," but it’s an old facebook message which eventually turns into a conversation about how my ankles have been bothering me. He would have had to click "earlier messages" to get to the information that made him so mad.

Thanks to read my question;
please Send me an email and attach your picture and your friend and then I choose your answer for best answer in yahoo.
Best_friend_finder@yahoo.com
Thanks a lot;Have a great time,see you soon