We are a happily married couple who are looking for that other special person. The problem is that we just can’t seem to find anywhere legit to look. We want a long-term committed relationship with a woman, but everywhere we look just seems to be focused on those already committed in a relationship. We have looked even at places such as alt.com, adult friend finder.com, and the like, to no avail. Our question; Where do we look? Any help is appreciated. P.S. If you are open to this, and are a 18-30 year old female, please reply and/or email us. Thanks.

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I found out the my serious boyfriend had an Adult friend finder account. He told me before I confronted him. BUt he did pay for the gold membership. THe site is not very secure so I go on and check his emails. I even made up a fake account to try to intise him to do something, just to test him. He had yet to agree to meeting anyone. My accont is the only one he emails. BUT he spends an hour every morning before work looking at the web cams. THis is driving me crazy I hate it. We already pay for a playboy chanell which I dont mind. I dont know what else to do?
Ive told him I dont like it. He just smiled said not to worry about it and tried to fool around with me….. Just to clarify I am very open minded and always willing to give him…what guys like.

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Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and we rarely fight but when we do, it’s always over the same things. The biggest problem we have is his addiction to those internet dating sites. I’m not even talking about porn, I mean those sites that claim to find your "sex mates" tonight, and etc, such as adult friend finder. Although he claims to no longer be doing it, I cannot get over the fact that he once had pictures of himself, his phone number, address, work place, and etc posted on the web for everyone to see! He was even paying for it. He sent out several emails a day, and even though he never actually met up with anyone, I still feel as if he has cheated on me. Am I being crazy, or am I correct? If so, do you think a relationship can truly recover from a situation such as this? We are trying, and he has stopped, taken everything down, and swears to never do it again, but I’d just like an outsider’s point of view for once.

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years on and off. we broke up recently for a week. when we got back together i found out he was contacting random females on myspace and responding to casual sex ads on craigslist he was also on several sex sites like adult friend finder and online booty call. out of curiousity a friend of mine made a post and he responded to her ad saying a lot of dirty things and using a email account he hide from me. he sent her dirty pictures and tried to meet up with her. When i confronted him he claimed he was only flirting and had no intention to meet any of these girls. he says since we haven’t been sleeping together since i moved back home that he’s doing a lot of jerking off but not fucking anyone. I shouldn’t have snooped but i let it get the best of me. i know the obvious thing would be to dump him but we have 5 good years and a daughter together. when i leave him he begs me to come back saying how much he loves me and how he wants us to be a family

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My fiance have been through it all. He has serious trust issues with me although I have NEVER crossed the line! Not even sligtly..even so, I have NO contact with males unless he ‘okays’ it. I’m perfectly FINE living this way because I can’t stand to argue about it. HERES THE CATCH: My fiance was allowed to be on the computer unsupervised from the time he was 11 to now. Thats 10 years..we all know how MEN are with the internet..I’ve caught him on sites like Adult Friend Finder and even Match.com. This has happened at least ten times. I always forgive, but the last time I banded him from the computer completely. I know he can sometimes sneak around and get on so I continue to check his email. Last night he got so upset over me checking his email, but I am just SICK of dealing with this internet addiction. It would be different if it was just porn but he’s actually talking to these women..Every relationship should be OPEN and HONEST..I feel like I have the right to check his email if I want to, especially with the history of his internet capades. Is this right or wrong?

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And I mean FREE websites! FREE everything; email, chat, profile viewing, picture viewing etc…

Adult Friend Finder is not free and I don’t want to waste my precious money on that site.

No sarcastic answers. This is a serious question.

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I do not want to change my email address. I am a member of AFF but sure don’t want the whole world to know. I am not very smart on the computer. Please help me get this off my outgoing mail without changing my name.It shows up like this "Adult friend finder or AFF" <goldierocksu@yahoo.com>

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Korean Lady email penpal?

Where to find? Any sites? Recommendations? Please don’t recommend those adult friend finder things…

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I had to get into my husband’s email account to print something off. When I was in it I found out he has an adult friend finder account which is for s e x with others. Well I logged in to his AFF account and didn’t see any recent activity or any messages to or from. However, I found out he opened his account 2 weeks after WE GOT MARRIED !

We have a great sex life so that can’t be the problem rest assured. His profile has limited info and he says that he "is just checking the site out and hasn’t made any decisions yet".
What decisions is he talking about ?!

Well I created my own account and I have emailed him. It may seem wrong but I have to know if he would cheat on me because we are married now. If things go down, I will try to set up a date with him and to his surprise he will be meeting me and possibly my wedding ring in his face.

Why would he have this account? He always tells me how I am such a great wife. I haven’t said anything cause I plan on catching him with ME !
I’m adding this because to clear up some peoples assumptions….. My husband is freakin hot !!!! We are a cute ass couple….!

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I know he looks at porn; he loves porn. I hate it and distroy every pornographic thing I find. He doesn’t care.I thought I could learn to live with it. Now this Adult Friend Finder thing… I’ve read and seen that porn is/can be a gateway for cheating.

What is adult friend finder, and what are some reasons my husband has an account w/them? It’s not a payed account (I would have noticed it on our bank statment) Is it porn as well?

I found out becasue he left his sbc account signed in and I didnt realize it was his mail and not mine. I’m respectfull of his emails, mostly becasue I don’t want to know what’s in there. When I went to check the email I saw the ads sent to his email w/his user name (one he uses frequently for many web sites) as well as mail from torrent porno websites.

Has he already made the leap to cheating? He never has time to go out alone, but I do go to bed before he does. He’s always there in the morning…

What do you all think?

He refuses to go to counciling, and says that I should just leave if I think it’s that bad, so this might be my last straw.

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Okay,your in your spouse’s email and see emails from "Adult friend finder" with lists of the opposite sex in your area. You "sign in" and see that all their info is there and correct. You officially know it wasnt just another advertisement but your partner took the time to join,except the money hadnet been paid to access these people in your area,they can only browse at this time. You bring this up to your partner,who denies it at first,then admits it bc theyre clearly cornered. Your spouse says they had no intention on going further. Your spouse has the emails stopped(at that email account anyway) and you basically drop it(for the most part).A few months later theres an "adult friend finder" icon on your computer desktop. Now,whats your opinion? Please dont TELL ME to leave him. This isnt about me,just say your thoughts.
WHEN CONFRONTED ABOUT THE ICON,YOUR PARTNER DENIES PUTTING IT THERE AND MENTIONS HOW OTHER THINGS HAVE MYSTERIOUSLY BECAME ICONS AS WELL
BRUNETTE—I DIDNT MEAN TO GIVE YOU THUMBS DOWN,SORRY.

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I found adult friend finder messages in my boyfriend’s email accoutn when he accidentally left it open last night. He said he got on the mailing list accidentally when he signed up for " other stuff" Is this possible, or is he cheating on me on line?

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My husband got an email from Adult Friend Finder that said "here’s your password." We’ve had alot of trust issues in response to a pornograhy addiction, so I am really suspicious. He denies signing up on the site, and I think I believe him. We are Christians, and he is really dedicated to giving up on porn. Could he have gotten the email by mistake? I just want to know if it’s possible. Please help from those familiar with spam, and email issues. Thanx.
He knows I have his email password and check it frequently. Does this make a difference?

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I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We are living together, we have two pets together, and we are planning to get married, and buy a house. Everything SHOULD be perfect… But I was snooping… (which I know is wrong, but my gut feelings are that something is going on that isn’t good.)

I found that he is subscribed to OKcupid.com and adultfriendfinder.com… which are basically sites to find dates or hook up. I knew he was subscribed to adult friend finder, and I asked him to cancel his account… he SAID he did… but he still opens EVERY email from that site and okcupid. From okcupid he was talking to a match he had, but he told her he was attached (she wasn’t very pretty anyway) I don’t understand why he even bothers with opening and answering those emails unless he IS looking for someone else. I feel like I’m being a bad girlfriend for not trusting him. Other than that he hasn’t given me any reasons not to trust him (like sneaking around etc…) I don’t know what to do anymore. my heart is breaking. How should I address this? PLEASE, I’m begging for help.

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Can ANYONE give me ANY information on this person???? What state does she live in? I believe shes is involved with my boyfriend ‘P’, and she also uses an alias ‘judy’. Her address is at yahoo…I know there is a rosiegirl from australia, but i believe this one is from CONNECTICUT and involved in some Adult friend finder/provacative stuff. Pleasel, any informataion would be greatly appreciated. I believe this ‘judy’ sent me a bogus email with rosiegirl’s address saying she knows nothing about this. She’s likely in her 20s and 30s and probably very attractive! she also just completed a course in webmaster and webhosting. THANK YOU..

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My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 and half years. We are talking about engagement and we have a beautiful daughter together, but the problem is throughout our relationship he has had a couple of internet issues. Such as creating email addresses that I don’t know about and making profiles at the trashiest sites on the net (Adult Friend Finder, Online Booty Call , Swing-lifestyle and more) he talks to these chicks on there and then moves it to like yahoo messenger mobile, so while I am thinking everything is okay and going great he was doing this behind my back. I bust him every time. I have found numerous email addresses and figure out the passwords and log in to them, but it’s no secret between him and I, so finally about 6 months ago I had enough. I told him that it was the sites or me and he cried and apologized and said nothing was worth losing our family over, so he stopped. Well my phone broke and I had to borrow his old one, in the phone are words saved like fwb (friends with benefits) or mistress. We haven’t had any issues and I know he stopped doing it, but the problem is he has done it so much in the past that it’s hard for me to let go. I know he hasn’t met any of them but he has had plenty of sexual conversations. To me, that is a form of cheating and this is why I find it to hurt so much. So even though the things in the phone are in the past, is it supposed to still bother me? So I asked him about it and he was so upset because it was from the past and he doesn’t do it anymore. Am I wrong, or what should I do?

Looking for some input,
Thanks

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>I had noticed that my mum/mom had a email address with a name that was one word begining with SXY(short for sexy) must i say more?

>> I found out that she has a profile on Adult friend finder

>>>I had to do this project that had to be typed, and my computer crashed

>>>>I used hers, and when i moved the mouse she was on her profile, an dI say some of the messgaes. I wasent trying to be nosy, I thought that they were video comments, but they wernt

>>>>>Some of those Subjects were F***** up, and nasty as heck.

>>>>>>>>>She is leaving to pennsylvaina for something, and im going to be at her friends house from thursday-sunday/monday

<<<<<<I have no clue about what to do!!!

Got any edvice?
I have some other sibling, but they are not living with me.

My mum/mom is still married, but talking about a divorce for 2 years
my dad has a girfriend, and he doesnt want a divorece.

My mum is cybering and stuff

Im not snooping, i just want the lies to stop, and i also want to know the truth

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I don’t want to pay for adult friend finder, but I do want to hook up with an swinger site where I am not looking for love just sexy with strangers who I don’t know in my. Are there any free I MEAN COMPLETLY FREE sites out there that allow me to contact other members with my own words instead of something fomr a drop down menu? And where I am allowed to enter my email address to other members all for free? Like plentyoffish and bangme, but something that is perfect for swinging! Thanks.

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I am tortured by the past and it keeps resurfacing. the other night i dropped down the scroll bar on yahoo and saw (Adult friend Finder). I woke him up to simply ask.."do you have a profile on here?" he said "No" so i typed in his email address while he was sleeping and it said your password has been sent to your email… so i caught him lying about that.he says he hasnt been on it since we had gotten back together a.the thing is i am discusted and embarrased that the man that i married wrote shit in his profile that said,

"Im a easy going, genuine guy with sexual desires that need fulfilled. i love meeting new people, travelling to new places, but as im stuck here for a while, so a little fun isnt too much to ask, is it?
iv’e had a lot of relationships that went nowhere, mainly cause i felt no sexual attraction, so i want to see what iv’e been missing.
Im looking for someone open minded and who knows what they want.sex is what im looking for, but if anything did come .

Any advice?

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My husband was travelling on work almost every week and one day i found out on his computer that he had made some psuedo email address which was a completely different name and was using that email address to log on to sex siteslike adult friend finder etc …when i confronted him he admitted that he did it for porn and had no other intentions and actually opened the email address to show me the inbox and also swore by our child that he had no intentions of cheating on me and it was just to browse pics on these website and he had to make an email account as these websites dont let u log on till the time u put an email address …but the had profiles made under those names which were quite hurtful.He has always been luving and caring and have always expressed missing his family while being away on travel…He has assured me a lot , even written on a piece of paper as to how much he loves me and want to see me happy….i am still too shaken to beleive anything ..what shall i do?

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Anybody know if this is spam? Or maybe he has visited this site? Or he is a member?
I clicked on the site and it said he was not a member. But it did say something about a newsletter?
Anyway here is what I found:

When you purchased your subscription
you indicated that you wished to receive our follow up newsletters. If you wish to change your message preferences or to be removed from all future mailing please use the links below.
For your reference you are subscribed to this newsletter as "his email"
Additionally you many subscribe be emailing us at kilogramcommune.com or by postal mail at the below address.

This is to a sex site kind of like adult friend finder. I never seen this in his email before.

Any ideas?
This is also my email to not like it’s his private account we use this email for our myspace. Ebay and such and here recent he changed the password to it.

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I have found adult friend finder website results and strange female addresses in his email. I called him on it and all I got were firm denials and anger. I am concerned that if I continue to push the issue it will make things worse, however, I am still on guard and he reads that in my actions.

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My husband and I just had a baby 3 months ago. I don’t think he is attracted to me like he use to be. I think he is looking for someone else. He says he’s not and he wants to be with me.

He left his email open and I was going to turn off the computer when I saw adult friend finder with ads for girls near our area. He said he doesn’t know why he gets the emails, I said "I think you have to register and give them your email address to get the ads." He said he never did that.

His ex-girlfriend sent him messages to his my space page. He wont even let me look at his myspace page. I asked if I could see his myspace page and he said "no. You need to trust me. You have no tust in me."

I might have taken it too far because I had a bad feeling about it. I told him to choose myspace and his ex or me and the kids. He still refused to show me his myspace account and was ready to leave, I gave in and droped it. We are still together but I feel like he would rather be with her or some else.

I don’t know what to do, I’m a stay at home mom with no where else to go.

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My friend signed up this one annoying girl for adult friend finder account under her email. She got some emails from a 44 year old lesbian. The girls mom said that she would press charges if she found out who sent it. Is this possible and what are the charges?

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