If your roommate goes thru your personal email & finds something they don't like, do you have to apologize?

We all just moved from one apartment to the other and my email was to a best friend in my home state, talking about what terrible packers and movers my roommates are. I refered to them as "lazy" and called them out for leaving mess (stuffed into trash bags the morning of the move) day after day and going out to get wasted, trash the house and start all over again.

Obviously, they are now mad. I apologized that they read that and it hurt their feelings, but I defend my right to use my personal email to vent my frustrations to a friend of 13 years who I talk about everything with. I absolutely would not believe for a moment that they haven’t been out with their respective friends, venting their own frustrations.

The finder of the email insists that it "popped up," but it’s an old facebook message which eventually turns into a conversation about how my ankles have been bothering me. He would have had to click "earlier messages" to get to the information that made him so mad.

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is there such a thing as an email address finder/directory?

i’m trying to get in touch with my sister but all i have is an 11yr old email address which is no longer valid. so what do i do?

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Looking for an old friend, Galen Graham, Jr.?

He grew up in Austin. Lived in South Florida for about a year. Moved back to Austin. Last I heard from him he was talking about moving to California. I have been wondering what ever happened to him. If you have any information, you can email me. I have tried the people finders, but none of them have anything. Any suggestions for finding him would be appreciated, too.

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How do I hide myself from Facebook/MSN friend finder?

Okay, so as some as you may know that on Facebook there is a friend finder thing, where you can log into an email account (such as MSN messenger) and find your friends. Is there a way I can hide myself from it? I’ve been getting friend requests from my MSN contacts but I don’t want them because half of them are strangers.
Okay, so as some as you may know that on Facebook there is a friend finder thing, where you can log into an email account (such as MSN messenger) and find your friends. Is there a way I can hide myself from it? I’ve been getting friend requests from my MSN contacts but I don’t want them because half of them are strangers.

I’m only using it for family and friends in real life, and I don’t want strangers knowing what I look like from my profile pic.

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Is there any free similar sites to adult freind finder where i can view profiles and send emails for free?

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what do you think of me?

http://searchservice.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=sitesearch.results&qry=tinydancerfour%40yahoo.com&type=people&orig=friend_finder-search&srchBy=Email

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Where can I find a free email/people finder that actually works? Please help me out?

I need one that REALLY works. please?

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is there anyway i can delete an account on adultfriend finder.com. They keep on emailing me and its annoying?

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can i search for someones email by their name for free??

anyone know a FREE FREE email search by name finder???im looking for my dads email and want to know if i can look it up by his name and address for FREE i dont have a credit card so it has to be free

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How to Find your past friends (under 18)?

I have this friend from a few years ago. I haven’t seen him and I don’t know where to find him. since he’s under 18, he isn’t on any people finder, and i checked myspace, and he wasn’t there. I don’t have any friends who know him. And also i don’t know his screen name or email, so i can’t do neither of those. So does anybody know how I can find him without having to pay?

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Has anyone tried this site before, TheEmailFinder.com? I would like to know can u really find someone's email

anywhere in the world with it? It costs .95 for total access, so is it legit or a scam? Just want to know if anyone has tried it & can tell me their experience. If you know an email finder where you can find anyone’s email who does not live in the U.S. I’d appreciate it. Thank you.
http://www.TheEmailfinder.com

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Is there a way to block yourself from friend finder on Faceboook?

I keep getting random request from friend finder, thats by my email I think, and I want to block myself from being found. Is there a way to do this?

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Is people finders a reliable site?

I’m always hesitant to order things online, esp. since I have a debit card, not a credit card so there is more risk. Has anyone used this site? I just want the one time report on someone, not a membership. They won’t send me emails, hassling me, or automatically sign me up for other stuff, will they?

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How can i get laid using adult friend finder?

I paid for an account and i really want my money’s worth. So what i need to know is what kind of things should i say in my profile? What kind of things should i say when emailing someone? How do i interest women in an encounter?

No BS answers please i only want responses from people who know about the subject.

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Where do I go for Polyamorous Personals?

We are a happily married couple who are looking for that other special person. The problem is that we just can’t seem to find anywhere legit to look. We want a long-term committed relationship with a woman, but everywhere we look just seems to be focused on those already committed in a relationship. We have looked even at places such as alt.com, adult friend finder.com, and the like, to no avail. Our question; Where do we look? Any help is appreciated. P.S. If you are open to this, and are a 18-30 year old female, please reply and/or email us. Thanks.

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Boyfriend on adult friend finder?

I found out the my serious boyfriend had an Adult friend finder account. He told me before I confronted him. BUt he did pay for the gold membership. THe site is not very secure so I go on and check his emails. I even made up a fake account to try to intise him to do something, just to test him. He had yet to agree to meeting anyone. My accont is the only one he emails. BUT he spends an hour every morning before work looking at the web cams. THis is driving me crazy I hate it. We already pay for a playboy chanell which I dont mind. I dont know what else to do?
Ive told him I dont like it. He just smiled said not to worry about it and tried to fool around with me….. Just to clarify I am very open minded and always willing to give him…what guys like.

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I Need Relationship Advice!?

Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and we rarely fight but when we do, it’s always over the same things. The biggest problem we have is his addiction to those internet dating sites. I’m not even talking about porn, I mean those sites that claim to find your "sex mates" tonight, and etc, such as adult friend finder. Although he claims to no longer be doing it, I cannot get over the fact that he once had pictures of himself, his phone number, address, work place, and etc posted on the web for everyone to see! He was even paying for it. He sent out several emails a day, and even though he never actually met up with anyone, I still feel as if he has cheated on me. Am I being crazy, or am I correct? If so, do you think a relationship can truly recover from a situation such as this? We are trying, and he has stopped, taken everything down, and swears to never do it again, but I’d just like an outsider’s point of view for once.

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Is there a way to retrieve the postal code I registered to my account.?

Ok I need my email account that i registered to myspace.

I know all the information except the postal code. I emailed yahoo they said that was the only thing i got wrong.

How can I get it back?

I’m talking any means. That are free. Or atleast cheap.

Like a postal code finder thatsearches emails idk but please HELP!!!

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I got accepted for a education online and at a real school, Which should I choose.?

I got an email from http://college-finder.2ya.com for a college education and I Got approved and was accepted to a real school or to study online, I which one is best? Does it really matter?

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What do i do if my boyfriend is living a secret life?

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years on and off. we broke up recently for a week. when we got back together i found out he was contacting random females on myspace and responding to casual sex ads on craigslist he was also on several sex sites like adult friend finder and online booty call. out of curiousity a friend of mine made a post and he responded to her ad saying a lot of dirty things and using a email account he hide from me. he sent her dirty pictures and tried to meet up with her. When i confronted him he claimed he was only flirting and had no intention to meet any of these girls. he says since we haven’t been sleeping together since i moved back home that he’s doing a lot of jerking off but not fucking anyone. I shouldn’t have snooped but i let it get the best of me. i know the obvious thing would be to dump him but we have 5 good years and a daughter together. when i leave him he begs me to come back saying how much he loves me and how he wants us to be a family

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how do I locate his email addresses? Are there any actually free email finder sites?

Anytime I check for a person’s email address, it always wants money. Were can I find a honestly free email finder. Using a persons cell phone, first and last name?

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My Sims 3 saved game is gone, can I recover it?

I’ve had my game since June. I’m playing it on my new macbook that i also got back in June. I’ve stopped playing it for about a week now and when i went to play it, it told me to play start a new game, instead of the saved games that i’ve had. I had two saved games, one wasn’t very important but the other one is. I have absolutely no idea what happened. I went in finder > documents > Electronic Arts > The Simes 3 > Saves, and there is nothing in the "Saves" folder. I looked in my trash that i emptied probably two week ago and there’s nothing in there. Even if the saved games were in my trash and i accidently deleted them, i would have absolutely no idea how or why i would’ve wanted to delete them in the first place. Does anyone know what wrong? I tried going on the website, but there’s no email address for contact. i’m very mad, and i would very much would like my saved game back….

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I will share the contents of my EMAIL INBOX with you- 15 Violation Notice Emails and 2 spams from…?

Adult friend finders.

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how to finder people by email?

yahoo members

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myspace sucks….?

My account is activated, and my profile was verified by email…but when i do a search using my name or display name my profile doesn’t show up…it’s frustrating because the only reason i opened a frigging account was so old friends who might be looking for me could find me…my profile doesn’t even show up in my groups…the friend-finder email search does work though…i contacted customer service but haven’t gotten a reply…anyone know what’s up?
Thanks

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Please Invite Me For A Google UK Email Account?

Please invite me for a account. First person to do so will be selected as best answer.

Thanks so much in advance,
tishme_travel_finders@yahoo.co.uk

Thanks,
Emma

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How should 2 Senior Friend Finders spend their first blind date?

We have chatted on IM and email for 3 weeks and had 1 telephone chat.

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what would you do if you found your husband on Adult Friend Finder?

his lame excuse was that it was in his email and he just clicked it because he was being "nosey". BS! He doesn’t come near me - if he does, I ALWAYS have to initiate it. I have been suspicious for a while now because he shows no interest in me. I am not fully convienced that he is actually cheating on me physically bec I can account for almost every minute of his day (we work in a small office together). However, looking for alternatives online is cheating in my eyes.

It’s not as simple as leaving him. I brought three kids into this marriage and he has helped me in raising him. I know that I cannot financially support them on my own. He had no kids when we got married, so I am having his in just a few months. What am I supposed to do? Intelligent answers only please. I am stressed enough and don’t need any sarcasm, please!
To eagle "whatever" - obviously a male, shows how smart you are — I wasn’t. He wasn’t smart enough to close out the tab. When I got online, there it was in my face. But thanks for the "intelligent" response.

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Facebook friend finder isn’t working?

I just got a facebook, and I’m trying to use the little friend finder thing… Where you type in your email and password, then you can find friends that way. Well when I type my password in, a little window opens up for like a half a second then closes, nothing happens. Does anyone know what’s going on? Am I doing it right?

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Is it okay for me to check his email periodically after this?? I am his wife to be after all..?

My fiance have been through it all. He has serious trust issues with me although I have NEVER crossed the line! Not even sligtly..even so, I have NO contact with males unless he ‘okays’ it. I’m perfectly FINE living this way because I can’t stand to argue about it. HERES THE CATCH: My fiance was allowed to be on the computer unsupervised from the time he was 11 to now. Thats 10 years..we all know how MEN are with the internet..I’ve caught him on sites like Adult Friend Finder and even Match.com. This has happened at least ten times. I always forgive, but the last time I banded him from the computer completely. I know he can sometimes sneak around and get on so I continue to check his email. Last night he got so upset over me checking his email, but I am just SICK of dealing with this internet addiction. It would be different if it was just porn but he’s actually talking to these women..Every relationship should be OPEN and HONEST..I feel like I have the right to check his email if I want to, especially with the history of his internet capades. Is this right or wrong?

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how do you read past conversations on yahoo messenger (mac)?

i used to have tiger as my software and before i upgraded to snow leopard i usually just hit finder and type a person’s email address there and all my conversations with that person appears in a folder but now it doesn’t anymore. :|

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can anyone please send me the weight watchers points finder/booster slides by email?

i started weight watchers about 3 months ago but have since moved house and seemed to have lost them :( please send to amymiller_69@hotmail.com

thanks x

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Anonymous calls help and yahoo location finder?

I sold a brand new never opened battery to someone on craiglist and ten minutes later he calls me that it didnt work and he wants his money back. Supposedly he lives in Stockton and he wanted me to take it to his cousins house in modesto and hes been calling me some calls are anonymous and some show the number im guessing hes lying about living in stockton and trying to rip me off giving me one that doesnt work i have the anonymous calls on my cell phone is there a way to get the number maybe from my cell phone company which is at&t or where he lives with his yahoo email?

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Why am I receiving emails from russian girls?

Not sure whats happeninghere but getting an email everyday from someone claiming to be a russian girl saying how interested they are in me and wanting to have a relationship. I get some that try to get you to sign up to an adult freind finder type site but these ones don’t have anything like that. I thought it was spam so I emailed back to see if I could get a personalized responce and they reply to me personally. Whats going on here?

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Girl Finder?

Ok, so I really like this girl. She goes to my school, and she told me that she had a Yahoo Account…. so I made one. She said hers was "Idk My Bff Jill," and I am trying to find her. Has anybody ever seen her answer a question or something? My friend said he sees her ALL the time answering questions. And he said that she doesn’t have her email or Messenger publically displayed. Does anybody know her? Or know a question she’s answered? Because I want to become friends with her…. and even more then JUST friends. Does anybody know her?
Thats her! IDK MY BFF JILL! THE SEVENTH ANSWERER! THATS HER

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Cyber Sex, IM’s, Adult Friend Finder, Swinger Sites…Is it really cheating or am I insecure & crazy?

For the last 8 yrs my husband has been involved with one or more of these areas. I’ve made it very clear how I feel. I think it’s cheating, he calls it "entertainment".

To me: watching porn, roll playing & acting out fantasies is entertainment.

Five years ago we entered the swinging lifestyle for about a year. It started out fun & ended in disaster. He became emotionally involved with someone. I was crushed. Their emotional tie just about killed me. We met them five years ago and their relationship ended last month. As far is he says, they weren’t physically involved outside of our two trists.

Today he left his email open and yes, I found several different hook-up sites. I read emails. I feel deceived. He says he’s a freak and that it’s just entertainment. I say he’s cheating. He hides it, he sneaks and he lies about it. If it’s not cheating, then why lie?

Is it worth ending a marriage, 4 kids later? Can we find common ground? If it had ever stopped I may have trusted him.

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