Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and we rarely fight but when we do, it’s always over the same things. The biggest problem we have is his addiction to those internet dating sites. I’m not even talking about porn, I mean those sites that claim to find your "sex mates" tonight, and etc, such as adult friend finder. Although he claims to no longer be doing it, I cannot get over the fact that he once had pictures of himself, his phone number, address, work place, and etc posted on the web for everyone to see! He was even paying for it. He sent out several emails a day, and even though he never actually met up with anyone, I still feel as if he has cheated on me. Am I being crazy, or am I correct? If so, do you think a relationship can truly recover from a situation such as this? We are trying, and he has stopped, taken everything down, and swears to never do it again, but I’d just like an outsider’s point of view for once.
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You are completely correct because if i was in this situation i would have the same thoughts as you. But for him to be doing that, he may have a sexual problem or he isn’t too happy with you two as a couple. Talk to him about what he needs from you and you let him know what you need from him. Comunicate with each other so that the relationship can get better and be rebuilt. The relationship can be recovered although it may be a bit hard. If you can regain your trust in him then everything will be fine. Trust is key and without it, the relationship is dead. Just keep trying with him because things can possibly get better. Its so easy to quit, but if you really love him, then give him another chance and keep the relationship going. If he swears to never do it again, then believe and trust what he’s saying to you. But still keep your eyes open, don’t be anyone’s fool girl. If this hapens again though, let him go because you don’t deserve that and there is someone out there that will treat you better, is trustworthy and will b mindful of your feelings. Good luck with everything.
either throw away the computer or set a password for it so he cant log onto the computer
put a password lock
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100208184035AA9cIi5
CHEATER!!!
ya i agree set a password on ur compter o
Change your password, thats the best you can do about it, or talk to him, talking solves everything!
do u mind answering my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtzHhCJ8OacA0wlGqU.qdc3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100208184240AABfJmV
It will lead to cheating, if thats what you mean
You’re not being crazy I agree with you if my boyfriend was doing that i’d be a little disturbed as welll. Just wait and see if he really does stop doing this little obsession of his !
If he’s stopped doing that then what’s the problem??
You need to let the past lie in the past where it belongs.
You say that he never even met anyone from the site?
So there really is nothing to worry about. Let it go.
Focus on the present, make plans for the future.
If you argue about other things, try to fight fair.
No name calling, no bringing up the past or throwing things in each other’s faces, etc.
Only send I Messages, like When This Happens, This Is How I Feel, etc…
Try to remember that you love each other, especially when you argue.
Enjoy your relationship, don’t look for reasons to be unhappy.
If he was sending out all of this stuff while you were dating then yes i would consider that cheating. He should be happy with you and not care about anybody else.
I Think Your Right.
He Sounds A Little OCD-ish.
Ha.
But Yeahh You Can. If You Wanna. My Dad, Was On Dating Websites, And "Reconnected" With Old "Friends" On Myspace.
My Mom And Dad Are Married.
7 Years And Going Strong.
Answer Mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av6PXNdcf7XZXglJh7fs6yfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100208184010AA5YjdK
I am breaking millions of man laws her but girl what u see now id early signs of what it to come later on in ur relationship. He may not have cheated but damn he might as well have shit, it is like he pretty much set up sched times to cheat and got cold feet. If that aint a smack in the face sign then girl ur in for one wild Jerry domestic battery Springer ride. All the signs are them u just have to read them urself. goold luck and may this blow over and yall live happliy ever after.
I see your point of view, i wouldn’t trust the other person, but I would give them a try. Putting a password on your computer isn’t going to help, if he really wants to get online he’ll find a way…its 2010 people!!…Anyhow, you have every right to be worried so if you can trust him then you have a chance at staying together. Get over it and hope it never happens again.
When he says he has stopped it u need to trust him… Trust s d major factor in relationship… Every humans are bound to make mistakes but one who tries to correct his mistake s a real man… So trust him n tell him u trust him then he wil find guilty f he wishes to do it again n wont do it… CHEERS!!!
from my point of view i think hes just using you until he can get another chick or you can do the most common thing, just talk to him and tell him whats wrong, show him how this is affecting you and the relationship. if he dosen’t stop just dump him or just smash his computer or change the password because if it keeps going on like this its not going to work out.
He didn’t cheat but he had incentives to cheat. Not as bad but he did plan on cheating. I think you two can forgive and forget the whole thing happened as long as he isn’t doing it anymore. If he continues to do that then you should probably tell him to get lost since he obviously is so unsatisfied that he has to turn to the internet. But if he truly isn’t doing it anymore then you should just move on and don’t even bring it up. It’s in the past.