his lame excuse was that it was in his email and he just clicked it because he was being "nosey". BS! He doesn’t come near me - if he does, I ALWAYS have to initiate it. I have been suspicious for a while now because he shows no interest in me. I am not fully convienced that he is actually cheating on me physically bec I can account for almost every minute of his day (we work in a small office together). However, looking for alternatives online is cheating in my eyes.
It’s not as simple as leaving him. I brought three kids into this marriage and he has helped me in raising him. I know that I cannot financially support them on my own. He had no kids when we got married, so I am having his in just a few months. What am I supposed to do? Intelligent answers only please. I am stressed enough and don’t need any sarcasm, please!
To eagle "whatever" - obviously a male, shows how smart you are — I wasn’t. He wasn’t smart enough to close out the tab. When I got online, there it was in my face. But thanks for the "intelligent" response.
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What were you doing on adult friend finder?
Counseling or divorce or put up with it.
You have to make that decision. We do not know your relationship. Does it have potential?
It sounds like he’s either thinking about having an affair or he’s gay curious.
Yes, you have to stay now, with almost 4 kids. You must stay now, with another on the way.
If he’s a good father, let him be. If he leaves you are going to be in a bad way.
Do you have any proof that he was talking to anyone? Maybe he isn’t coming near you because you’re pregnant. It scares some guys off. If you don’t have any proof don’t nag about the issue. Wait it out. If he’s truly doing something he shouldn’t be he’ll eventually hang himself. Men can’t keep secrets!
gosh your question brings back bad memories to me. same experience kinda different he was looking for male/female company, only i couldn’t account for his every move he had to leave in the end he had cheated numerous times on me without me knowing since he left he has had a few more relationships but all ended the same as ours did. there were kids involved with me too but they are better off without him and much happier as there are no more rows… what ever you decide make sure its what you and the kids want don’t be scared of being on your own you will manage…..
I would tell him that I wasn’t a fool and to quit screwing around on dating sites. Adult Friend Finder has a lot of people looking for kinky things, because I came across the site once. If you are with him all the time, it’s not likely he’s done more than flirt or look around.
Have found my husband on that site "and some others". What did I do I never forgot it and I remind him often how pissed off I still am to this day about it.
When you can get on your feet and do ok without him than do just that!
I am so sick of men like this why get married and have a kid in the first place if they are just going to be idiots like this.
This is how smart our guys are? Adult friend finder hires people puts fake profiles on there to get men to join. These guys actually think they are talking to a real girl lol. "that says it all there" lol
It is cheating, however if you are willing to forgive him you must talk to him and work it out.
did you find it in his email? i would see if i can have his password and stuff for adult friend finder sent to his email. if they send his information, he was on it and has an account. if he doesn’t have an account the website will tell you that his email address isn’t in the system. if leaving him isnt an option, i dont know what else to tell you. but if my husband had an account on a site like that i would leave him. adult friend finder isnt just a porn site…
add: some men ARE talking to real women. my husbands cousin met his gf on there (she was pretty nasty though lol)
Some can be faithful, some can’t, some don’t want to, some are tired of it. Some keep the marriage going but pursue outside interests. Seems it would be a lot simpler if people could just be open about it. Not so simple if both people don’t feel the same. You guys are in charge of the rules…whatever they are. You 2 have to be the ones to define what your marriage is.
Counseling serves a purpose, and is probably a lot better than Yahoo Answers. Why aren’t you going?
How would you know he’s on Adult Friend Finder unless you were too?