My fiance have been through it all. He has serious trust issues with me although I have NEVER crossed the line! Not even sligtly..even so, I have NO contact with males unless he ‘okays’ it. I’m perfectly FINE living this way because I can’t stand to argue about it. HERES THE CATCH: My fiance was allowed to be on the computer unsupervised from the time he was 11 to now. Thats 10 years..we all know how MEN are with the internet..I’ve caught him on sites like Adult Friend Finder and even Match.com. This has happened at least ten times. I always forgive, but the last time I banded him from the computer completely. I know he can sometimes sneak around and get on so I continue to check his email. Last night he got so upset over me checking his email, but I am just SICK of dealing with this internet addiction. It would be different if it was just porn but he’s actually talking to these women..Every relationship should be OPEN and HONEST..I feel like I have the right to check his email if I want to, especially with the history of his internet capades. Is this right or wrong?
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I think it is wrong that you check his e-mail…..however I understand why you would want to given that he has been on these sites. Especially the Adult Friend Finder….which is for strictly casual "adult" relationships. This whole situation seems kind of fishy and if I were you I would probably be contemplating the whole relationship.
Banded?
You need to not get married if this is a regular thing. You have to trust him, and I don’t see how you can.
I;m saying no. If you can’t trust him when he’s by himself you can’t trust him at all.
Trust is key in a relationship.
You two do not trust each other. You either need to resolve that, or break it off.
Your marriage is doomed to fail if you do not deal with this now.
You need to get out of this quick! I know how this can turn out, it happened to me. You deserve better, his talking to these girls can start out harmless (if he’s told you that) and turn out to be something he depends on. He may need them as an ego boost that he’s "still got it" and he may have some issues with that, but that IS NOT your problem, its his. If you keep this up you are going to develop issues of your own, like you are already starting too. Its a little wrong to check his email, but its more wrong of him to talk to these women. You are right every relationship should be open and honest, and you should not have to check his email. I repeat, get out quick, before it changes something inside of you.
Your entire relationship is unhealthy and will end poorly. Cut ties now. Honestly. NOW! People who love/care/respect each other do not behave the way the BOTH of you are. STOP. Get out of this relationship.
haha it’s right.